Seriously, Who Wants To Be Normal?

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“Who wants to be normal, anyway?”

If understanding oneself is hard enough, putting words to that slippery, elusive substance is nothing less than a Herculean feat.  A host of factors contributes to self-conception and self-description – into how we package ourselves into language.  One rather fun way of comparing perception and reality is through the medium of online dating sites.  In that context, let’s examine the use of the word “weird.”

As adolescents, many of us railed against the notion of being “normal.”  To be normal implied abandoning one’s individuality in favor of a soulless cubicle or loveless marriage – or whatever depressing image we associated with our parents.  To be normal was high treason against our complex, inimitable snowflake souls that would not be hemmed in or dictated to.  As we grew older, many of us learned that our most profound and original musings belong to other people, that…

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The One Who Cares Less

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I’ve often heard that people only start wanting you when they think that you don’t want them. It’s true; I’ve lived by it. Whether its business or friendships or especially romantic relationships, the person who cares less always seems to be the person who has the most power. At least that’s what it might feel like for the person that cares more. But I question whether this is true or not.

I have been called the, “queen of not giving a shit.” One of my many talents is that I am really good at both not actually caring, as well as acting like I don’t care. Just yesterday, some girlfriends and I were talking about boys and I quoted Almost Famous as my romance mantra, “If you never take it seriously, you never get hurt.” And it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve ultimately come off as cynical about relationships…

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Heartbreak One.

Heartbreak One..

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A little poem about Arete

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Slow down, smell the flowers;

Sad isn’t it, how the N shape is always lurking around the corner to kidnap you away from your date with the U shape? 
Sad isn’t it, how as you grow up, you gradually locked the chest with the fun and kiddish self inside, with the serious self invading your entire soul?
Sad isn’t it, how you are being thrown with scorning eyes, spat at with critical words, just for letting yourself run free once in a while?

Maybe this is why, the only time we can have fun and smile genuinely with simple thoughts, is childhood.

Let your hair down for a while, won’t you? What’s the point of being serious for 24/7, is it going to get you anywhere in life? What’s the point of being so serious, if it cannot bring you a simple smile?

Maybe that’s why the world is cruel in a way. Sad, isn’t it?

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Food for blog? Yes (because there’s food).


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Moebius Strip

Interesting read.

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